Tuesday, February 8, 2011

It's easier to keep the commandments 100% of the time

Today I want to share a story Pres. Monson told in General Conference last October. I want to share it because it's about a young man who did something very hard. He chose to obey the commandment to keep the Sabbath Day holy even when everyone around him wanted him to do something else. He chose to be 100% obedient. He chose to keep a commitment he made to himself, no matter how difficult.

"When he was 16 years old, Brother [Clayton M.] Christensen decided, among other things, that he would not play sports on Sunday. Years later, when he attended Oxford University in England, he played center on the basketball team. That year they had an undefeated season and went through to the British equivalent of what in the United States would be the NCAA basketball tournament.

They won their games fairly easily in the tournament, making it to the final four. It was then that Brother Christensen looked at the schedule and, to his absolute horror, saw that the final basketball game was scheduled to be played on a Sunday. He and the team had worked so hard to get where they were, and he was the starting center. He went to his coach with his dilemma. His coach was unsympathetic and told Brother Christensen he expected him to play in the game.

"Prior to the final game, however, there was a semifinal game. Unfortunately, the backup center dislocated his shoulder, which increased the pressure on Brother Christensen to play in the final game. He went to his hotel room. He knelt down. He asked his Heavenly Father if it would be all right, just this once, if he played that game on Sunday. He said that before he had finished praying, he received the answer: “Clayton, what are you even asking me for? You know the answer.”

"He went to his coach, telling him how sorry he was that he wouldn’t be playing in the final game. Then he went to the Sunday meetings in the local ward while his team played without him. He prayed mightily for their success. They did win.

"That fateful, difficult decision was made more than 30 years ago. Brother Christensen has said that as time has passed, he considers it one of the most important decisions he ever made. It would have been very easy to have said, “You know, in general, keeping the Sabbath day holy is the right commandment, but in my particular extenuating circumstance, it’s okay, just this once, if I don’t do it.” However, he says his entire life has turned out to be an unending stream of extenuating circumstances, and had he crossed the line just that once, then the next time something came up that was so demanding and critical, it would have been so much easier to cross the line again. The lesson he learned is that it is easier to keep the commandments 100 percent of the time than it is 98 percent of the time."

Why do you think Pres. Monson would say it's easier to keep the commandments all the time than to keep them some of the time? Every time we choose to obey a commandment we make it more of a habit and more likely that we will do the same thing the next time we have to make a choice. This story helps us remember that sometimes it's hard to do what's right and that every time we obey we become stronger. Choosing to do the right thing is a habit I hope you are learning to do every day. I love you!


Here's a photo of Grandpa and me in Egypt last year - with Elena and a sphynx. It's a good thing we went there last year.

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

To My Grandchildren

One of my goals for the year 2011 is to write letters to each of you throughout the year.


Although I've written you many letters, I usually write to every child in the same family at the same time.

This year I'm going to write to just one of my grandchildren each week.


I made a schedule and just mailed the first letter. (Actually the first 5 letters since I'm a month behind. :)


The letters may come randomly to different members of the same family, and I hope that doesn't create a problem.


I promise that each of you will be receiving a letter every few months.


I am packing as much love as I can into each one - and I hope you can feel it.

I LOVE YOU!

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Avoiding Scorpions

I want to share a story from the last General Conference “Come unto Me with Full Purpose of Heart, and I Shall Heal You” by Patrick Kearon of the Seventy:

"As a seven-year-old boy living in the Arabian Peninsula, [This is the area where Uncle David, Aunt Belky, Elena, and Victoria live] I was consistently told by my parents to always wear my shoes, and I understood why. I knew that shoes would protect my feet against the many threats to be found in the desert, such as snakes, scorpions, and thorns. One morning after a night’s camping in the desert, I wanted to go exploring, but I did not want to bother with putting on my shoes. I rationalized that I was only going for a little wander and I would stay close by the camp. So instead of shoes, I wore flip-flops.



"I told myself that flip-flops were shoes—of a sort. And anyway, what could possibly happen?

"As I walked along the cool sand—in my flip-flops—I felt something like a thorn going into the arch of my foot. I looked down and saw not a thorn but a scorpion.



"As my mind registered the scorpion and I realized what had just happened, the pain of the sting began to rise from my foot and up my leg. I grabbed the top of my leg to try and stop the searing pain from moving farther, and I cried out for help. My parents came running from the camp.

"As my father battered the scorpion with a shovel, an adult friend who was camping with us heroically tried to suck the venom from my foot. At this moment I thought that I was going to die. I sobbed while my parents loaded me into a car and set off across the desert at high speed toward the nearest hospital, which was over two hours away. The pain all through my leg was excruciating, and for that entire journey, I assumed that I was dying.

"When we finally reached the hospital, however, the doctor was able to assure us that only small infants and the severely malnourished are threatened by the sting of that type of scorpion. He administered an anesthetic, which numbed my leg and took away any sensation of pain. Within 24 hours I no longer had any effects from the sting of the scorpion. But I had learned a powerful lesson.

"I had known that when my parents told me to wear shoes, they did not mean flip-flops; I was old enough to know that flip-flops did not provide the same protection as a pair of shoes. But that morning in the desert, I disregarded what I knew to be right. I ignored what my parents had repeatedly taught me. I had been both lazy and a little rebellious, and I paid a price for it.

"...the scorpion did not in the end threaten my life, but it caused extreme pain and distress to both me and my parents. When it comes to how we live the gospel, we must not respond with laziness or rebelliousness."

This year our family is learning more about Doing Hard Things. It wasn't hard for this boy to put on shoes instead of flip-flops; it was hard for him to obey his parents. He learned that his parents told him to wear shoes because they loved him and wanted to protect him. Your parents love you, and so do Grandpa and me.



We all love you very much. Remember that, and remember that the things your parents tell you do are to protect you and guide you and help you be happy.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Johnny Lingo


Have you see the church film, Johnny Lingo? It's about how a man who recognizes the true beauty in another person (his future wife) and then helps her and everyone else see how beautiful she really is. You can watch it in 3 parts on youtube.

It was directed by your Uncle Weston's grandfather, and even though it was made many years ago it teaches some great lessons. You might want to watch it with your parents. Start here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x-PLyy0XM3Y

I love you!

Just for fun, see if your parents can answer any of the following trivia questions:

How did director Judge Whitaker know that he had finally found his Mahana in Naomi Kahoilua Wilson?

Which cast member did the actress who played Mahana remain closest to over the years?

Which cast member is a classical pianist? Which actor is an opera singer?

How are the movie and Army Intelligence connected?

The answers can be found here: http://www.mormontimes.com/arts_entertainment/movies/?id=12058

Tuesday, February 2, 2010

Grandpa Roger


Today is Grandpa's Birthday and I don't have enough time to post the photos I wanted to of him with you - so I will do that tomorrow. This picture is how he looked last night when we went to an opera in NYC. Aren't the lights amazing???!!!

He has meetings tonight so I suggest you call him early to wish him a Happy Day. We love you!

Monday, February 1, 2010

You're the Something That Makes Me Smile

My dear friend, Gus (Butts) Norman sent this to me yesterday - and now I'm sending it to you. Listen to the words and pretend I'm singing them just to you. I couldn't love you more! Just click on the link below:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EELEjeYzfjM



I hope you have a wonderful, colorful day.

<3 love, Grandma Linda

Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Our Lives Are Guided by the Gift of the Holy Ghost


Yesterday I sent you a story by Elder Boyd K. Packer, about how his wife was protected by the actions of an inspired young missionary. Here's what Elder Packer wrote next:

"[T]he elder who handed me the 20-mark note was David A. Bednar, a young elder serving in the South German Mission, who is now a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. So why was it that this young elder from San Leandro, California, handed me the 20-mark note? ...I do not think he knew the consequences of what he was doing. That 20-mark note was worth six dollars, and six dollars to an elder is quite a bit!

"As you go through life, you will find that these things happen when you are living as you ought to live. If you can learn what the Spirit is, then you never need to be alone."



The Spirit he's talking about is also called The Holy Ghost. After you are baptized, you will be confirmed and receive the Gift of the Holy Ghost. Kylie received this gift 2 years ago and Jared will receive it later this year. The gift of the Holy Ghost will be with you all the time, as long as you are obedient and trying to do what's right. That's why Elder Packer said you don't need to be alone because you can always have the Holy Ghost with you.

The Holy Ghost is one of the best gifts you will ever receive. It will help you choose the right. It will help you make decisions. It will help you feel better when you are feeling bad. It will help you learn. It will help you be happy. I know this because that's what it has done for me, ever since I received this gift when I was 8 years old.

More about this gift next time... I love you!